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Tag Archive: Separation and Divorce

POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY IS THE KEY TO FAMILY LAW

Marigona Binakaj | August 18, 2026

In the 1960s, a researcher named Martin Seligman studied the theory of “Learned Helplessness”. His theory explained that some people learn to become helpless and feel they have lost all... Continue Reading...

How is Med/Arb different than court?

Steve Benmor | July 2, 2026

Timely resolution of legal disputes is not merely an ideal in law; it is a vital necessity for families who are undergoing the traumatic process of divorce. In Ontario, the increasing... Continue Reading...

WHAT ARE THE THREE MOST POWERFUL WORDS IN CONFLICT RESOLUTION?

Steve Benmor | June 9, 2026

Every month my new issue of Toronto Life lands in my mailbox. Some sections I read cover to cover. Others I skip entirely. But every once in a while, a... Continue Reading...

DIVORCE: SOUTH KOREA STYLE

Steve Benmor | May 9, 2026

For decades, the public story of Korean divorces was told through the lens of a young marriage: couples who married when young, discovered incompatibility, and separated before the marriage had truly matured. Now,... Continue Reading...

LOANING MONEY TO YOUR KIDS TO BUY A HOME? READ MASSAAR V. MONECK

Jessica Brant | May 8, 2026

In recent years, many parents have opted to assist their adult children in purchasing a home, often providing loans or guarantees to help bridge the gap in down payments. While... Continue Reading...

WHAT DIVORCE PROFESSIONALS SHOULD (BUT DON’T) KNOW ABOUT PERIMENOPAUSE

Steve Benmor | May 7, 2026

I recently attended an event at the University of Toronto called “Midlife, Myth-Free: Empowering Truths about Menopause & Perimenopause” featuring Dr. Sheila Wijayasingha of the Temerty Faculty of Medicine. She... Continue Reading...

EVEN LAWYERS & REALTORS CAN BE HASTY

Steve Benmor | April 23, 2026

Whether selecting a lawyer, mediator or realtor, it never pays to be hasty. Let me begin with a confession. Last week, Samantha Graff Benmor and I went for our biannual... Continue Reading...

PERIMENOPAUSE: THE HIDDEN DRIVER OF MID-LIFE DIVORCE

Steve Benmor | April 20, 2026

From the vantage point of a Family Mediator/Arbitrator, one of the most overlooked drivers of mid-life divorce is perimenopause. It is rarely identified, rarely discussed, and often misunderstood by men,... Continue Reading...

WHAT THE 2026 TLA AWARD CEREMONY TAUGHT ME

Steve Benmor | April 17, 2026

There are evenings in a professional life that you remember – not because of the food or the venue or the formality of the occasion – but because something was... Continue Reading...

IS UFC EVER COMING TO TORONTO?

Steve Benmor | April 16, 2026

For anyone unfamiliar with the acronym, “UFC” in Toronto’s family law world should be aware of the need for a Unified Family Court, not Ultimate Fighting Championship. Although given the... Continue Reading...